He said he's seeing someone new

[phoenix23]

A punching bag seems like such a good idea. I'm sure I'd probably hurt myself if I tried using one, but it would almost be worth it just for the stress relief.

Just out of curiosity, Ophelia, would you rather know who the OW was and what she looks like, or are you do you think you are better off not knowing?

I'm glad your H apologized for not replying to your email. I would take that to mean that he still feels some level of accountability towards you, which is a good thing.

Hope your sore muscles feel better soon and best of luck with your lunch for the in-laws! I admire you for pursuing your relationship with them - I was quite close to H's parents, and I know that they are totally horrified by what he has done here and want nothing to do with OW, but I still feel terribly awkward calling them up or stopping by to visit them.