Thank you SO MUCH for your posts and efforts. It's certainly not easy coming here and sharing your experiences...a time in life I'm sure you would many times rather keep in the past....and for sharing while the both of you are now on the same side of the fence as us.
Though the femalve vs male MLC has differences, I can also see MANY similartiies. Of course, this goes without saying.
So many hurdles, and so much of it not in our hands.
Keep on living, is the way to go for now.
You're right about laying low....it's been the best tactic for me, too.
The answers always come from within, for both the MLCer and the LBS.
So, I have felt most comfortable letting H come to his own realizations, answers or living in a fog.
Trust in God. Trust that God will give you what you need to make it through, anything.
