Let me clarify here about the "moving into Mom's" idea: It's not a "plan", it's an "option." In other words, if it ever comes to the point where I NEED to go someplace else (e.g., I drive up to find my stuff in the yard, my keys/codes don't work, and/or the cops out front), I won't have to utilize a lot of mental energy flailing around wondering "where can I go? what can I do?"