Also, don't forget women are not always logical. One would think leaving your W would create nothing but more problems (which it can)but I would bet BIG MONEY that Mrs.HD (in the end) would respect HD way more than she does now. She walks all over him and he takes it. He needs to take a stand and be courageous. And it does take courage to leave a M. Seems illogical but it worked on me. I can honestly say we are closer and happier today than in any days past. So....