I can relate...not married, but with a bf who never initiates anymore. He has had some health related stuff, but nevertheless I was starting to think I didn't want it anymore either...until a few days ago. Met someone at a dinner who knocked my socks off...I drank a little too much and kissed him. He has my phone number now. At least I know now that I am not going to the LD side...LOL. Sad, but bf just puts NO effort into intimacy and thinks I am going to go along with it...not going to happen. I guess my point for HD is...the rest of your life is a long time to suppress your sexual side. It makes me feel unattractive and unwanted...and OLD. I just can't see giving into this, married or not. But with kids, very difficult. JMHO.
