Cobra and Blackfoot: I've already begun the nauseating MENTAL process of imagining a D. Having been there before, I know what I need to do, and can basically take care of most of the income-related changes (my salary direct deposit) in about three minutes on the computer. My living arrangements? Unlike my first marriage, I don't want to go through the hassle of finding/buying a new house. Instead, I plan, at least for the short term, to (gulp) move into my mom's house. I could also, possibly, move in with my brother, but the point is that I have given this some thought. No timetable yet.
And yes, Cobra, I'm ready for the discussion with her. Thanks for the help.
