Thank you so much for your excellent advice as always. I don't feel secure enough to send a note at the minute though. It probably sounds crazy but I'm just scared of how much affection to show. I have started many texts with loving or romantic things in them and then not sent them in case H didn't like it. It feels a bit like when you first realise you love someone but you don't tell them until you're sure you won't scare them away.
As for putting on a frock and lipstick. We have had a major downturn in the weather over here. It had started to warm up but this past week we have had snow and although it didn't stay long it is now damp and miserable and absolutely freezing cold.
I love your comparison to being at work. I used to have a job just like that where nothing was good enough and it was awful -point well and truly taken!
