He said it wasn't about anything physical...it was about feeling desire, which he didn't feel from me. He dates this from about 7 yrs ago, when he moved to this new house. It was a house he wanted, and I gave in ....
Did you notice what you wrote? "When HE moved to this new house"?
Freudian slip? Both of you physically moved, right?
This is very tough stuff to hear, NJ. Giving you a 4-ish sisterly hug. ((((NJ))))
