Lets imagine for a minute that you were going to get a D. (Yes I know we dont want one.)
What actions would you start taking, to be more self sufficient, more in control of your own life? Probably right along the lines of what the Nops have been suggesting you take care of. Have you set a list with a timeline for yourself to get these items handled, regardless of the direction you go?
If you know the poo is going to spray, why wait for it to happen. May as well put on your rain gear and proactively, assertively point out the poo in her hand she is getting ready to throw.
