chicki, lol, i am a mr not a missy. I use miss-my-friend. Common mistake. Sorry for my mistake. However if physical abuse exists, I still would be very concerned. '

As far as detaching, I would ask Happy. I am not exactly detaching completely. I am giving her all the space she wants while having a life of my own. I will be there when she needs me because I want her to know she has a place with us.


Me:56, W:51
D:26,S:24,S:22
Married:18
Bomb 9/27/06
Separated 11/27/06
Divorced 10/6/08
Leaving it up to God