chicki, lol, i am a mr not a missy. I use miss-my-friend. Common mistake. Sorry for my mistake. However if physical abuse exists, I still would be very concerned. '
As far as detaching, I would ask Happy. I am not exactly detaching completely. I am giving her all the space she wants while having a life of my own. I will be there when she needs me because I want her to know she has a place with us.
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God