Good job! Now keep your distance and GAL. It will be painful. I remember my stomach twisted in knots and having non-stop thoughts about my husband every moment. I just wanted to pull him back to me, but I finally realized I had to let go. I had to live my life as if he wouldn't come back. Detaching can be really painful, but in the long run it was a really healthy thing. It allowed me to grow. And when I did have contact I lost expectations. I could be friendly and a friend without needing anything from him. By expecting him to leave I could deal with anything he said, let go of OW and focus completely on me.... and becoming someone much more attractive to any guy... including my husband!
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
