K, My husband too said he wanted to try to work on us. We have been separated for 5 months and there is OW. Two weeks ago he came home to work on us and it lasted less than a week. He is now back to saying he wants a divorce, he tried but he doesn't have feelings for me. I did backslide and we argued about the OW. The entire time we have been separated we have seen each other almost weekly, it definitely has been a yoyo. I feel your pain, they are so unpredictable. Just keep working on yourself. We can't change them only make ourselves better.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
