I am sorry to have to be the one to explain this to you all. Sometimes we are so focused on the trees we can't see the forest. Since this is a MLC forum we should have been better prepared.
You all know that MLC in one spouse often triggers a monumental crisis on the part of the other spouse. Poor poor Santhony has certainly been hit hard with his STBCAXW's MLC EA/PA w/XBIL. It does seem clear this has sent your stud muffin over the top.
He must have fallen prey to his very own horrorific MLC, or he would have never ever imagined ... never mind actually carried out, the crime of not stopping in to see BBA's legendary case of pony bedhead. Where else would his girl's get such a chance? Where else could he meet his next soulmate?
NO, I'm afraid he is lost to the MLC alien species ... he has become one. So we will DB well when we hear from him in the future. We will acknowledge and validate his concerns. But we will not be surprised when next he tries earnestly to convince us he is 'normal'.
Ladies, prepare yourselves for a very long journey. You know he is likely to recycle in replay for quite a long time before you get your old honeyman back.