I wasn't really seriously suggesting that HD should set up some jealousy inducing situation just that I think that MsHD is in denial in certain ways that might be unmasked in a situation that invoked a jealous or competitive reaction. For instance, I think that if MsHD were to join this BB and simply "meet" all us HD women it might cause her to reflect a bit about some of her knee-jerk responses or defenses.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver