You made me laugh at at time when I can only push back the tears. He is really hurting my feelings, I mean I am a tough person but I am so very hurt. Deep down inside hurt. I wonder if I can ever get over this hurt, I wonder if he ever will come back and if we could be a happy family,I wonder if I would ever be able to find someone for me when this is all said and done. i just cracked a smile, thanks. I know that the anger will subside but in the meanwhile, it hurts.
RCR, I am going to print out and read so that I can reply. But I have another question ... What about cases where they are cake eating? You see, I let H come and go, spend time, I made myself available the house was comfortable and safe. We spent time as a family but then I found that he was quite content and still doing his own thing. So,I sort of changed my strategy and distanced.
Now it seems that he is furious and colder than ever. He mentioned to a friend that he was very angry with me and the more that he thought about it the angrier he got. I have never experienced him being so angry. He is hellbent on divorce, unlike anytime before so I guess that he wants the freedom to see his skank in the light of day.
How does anger play into all of this? What happens after anger or do they stay in?
