It's irritating because I think it's a cheeseless tunnel. I'm going to assume that she still finds me attractive and that she knows I could find love elsewhere if I chose, but that I'm committed to the relationship. If attractiveness is an issue to her, it's about me making myself attractive to her by "doing some soul searching" and making myself happier, and, also, doing all the things she wants/needs, and not expecting anything in return, not making demands of her, giving her space, etc. And, in that sense, I could be damned attractive and still end up hosed as far as getting my needs/wants met, or even getting her to take them seriously. And so, to me, talking about jealousy and Ms.Hdog is a lot like teaching a pig to sing. It's a waste of time and it annoys the pig.
