Difficult choices ahead for you ... just don't make any based in fear, anger, or self-sacrifice. I am so sorry you are left with making a decision based on something you had no control over. So frustrating! As you may remember, I had a similar choice to make, and I made mine out of a sense of self-sacrifice, telling myself it was for my children's sake. Then, H didn't behave as I would like, and I still don't trust him, and actually resent him immensely (I am, however, trying to not).
Take care!
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
