Thanks for the "offer" Mojo, but I don't really care about how she'd react to seeing me with another woman. I'm trying to distill our issues down to manageable level, not add new ones.
I'm actually being semi-serious in suggesting that you might play on her tendency towards jealousy. It is pure Schnarch after all. Have you considered that that might be what would turn her on? I know women like MsHD in real life and I think my suggestion is valid. The fact that she suggested that you go see a prostitute is a give-a-way in that regard. She is okay with you having "just sex" with other women but I think if she sensed the possibility that you could actually have a sexual relationship with a woman whom she might respect as a peer it would shake her up a bit. Analogous to my H's remarks along the lines that only a brutish sort of man could satisfy me sexually.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
