1st- Is there anyone else on this board who had their Spouse leave, just because? Not because of an affair emotional or physical? That hasn't jumped into a relationship past a casual couple of dates? (My XH dated lots early on, like the first 2-3 months. Then we started talking again. And I know he still went out here and there, it was never anything that lasted more than a week or two. Then in 2 months there hasn't been any dates, since he pulled himself off the dating sites.) Just looking for someone who might be able to help me, "theorize" the answer to my why questions. I am tired of hearing from my friends and family he did it b/c he is stupid, selfish and he just wants to hurt you.
2nd question of the day-Any ideas/guesses to what "stage" of this whole thing my XH is at? While I thought he might be in withdrawl.. I am not sure.
3rd question- If you read above somewhere my XH said, "Being around you had had an emotional cost to me." What do you think he meant?
Sorry if I just keep throwing questions out there... they have been floating around my head for a while now, with no one to really ask.
