I still think option 3 which would be to take advantage of MsHD's natural tendency towards jealousy and competition would work best. All HD has to do is act out the Schnarchian bar scenario. HP and I will both be at the bar and when MsHD comes looking for him we will be sitting at a table with him laughing and looking hot. Of course, we will have to somehow make it obvious that we are intelligent women and not bar bimbos. Perhaps sexy business suits would be an appropriate look.


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