My sitch is at a stand still so all we really do over there is play around and make people laugh...
Child Custody hearing is on April 4th....I actually can not wait. However my Son pissed me off a little bit lastnight. Mind you I was not pissed at him but at what he said and who put it in his head. Basically the two crazy women are now telling my son that I am taking him away from his mother and she will never be able to see him....Oh well to be expected. Thanks for asking.
Now back to you....
Have you started something simple like where do you see yourself later in your life? (I am stealing this one from 1210 you might want to read what she wrote to SOL on his thread). Basically what she suggested is a way to figure out what is on your H mind with out prying or pushing him in anyway. I really think it might be something that you would want to look into....
Basically It was just asking him about his self and what he was planning in his life...Check it out I think it might help you out a little bit.
As far as start the R talk I am going to say something that people will dissagree with but I think You have the right to ask simple and non-stressful questions about your R. You (IMHO) should ask for your own sanity. Now constant questioning is not the right thing to do but it has been a while since you have said anything and nothing has really seemed to change at all. Not to mention when you do ask as long as you keep it light he is receptive.
Check out Sol's thread and let me know what you think. They were talking lastnight about it...
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."
