because he has no idea where to start, and it's overwhelming and confusing. So it's just a lot easier to avoid and pretend he doesn't have any responsibilities.
You are absolutly right on the money with this one...At least IMHO. I know that a guys pride and Ego are a majority of what they live their lives by. Once one of those things are broken it is hard to fix. Example, H cheats on you and realizes that he was wrong and wants to fix it but is too damn stubborn to commit to it for two fold.
A) He will be reliving his mistake and as a guys we do not want to do that....We try everything to avoid it.
B) He has to admit that he was wrong....Pride.
Now as far as initiating R talk, How long has it been since you have talked about it at all?
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."
