Sillyhead, Fearless and I were taking exception to your implication that women prefer MB not that men prefer sex.
I never really felt like my H MB'd because sex was too "scary". Of course, my H is an exception to the general LD male population as represented on this BB due to the fact that he isn't at all prudish. I think he was just Type 4 envious of the fact that I desired and enjoyed sex more than he did most of the time. Same way he was Type 4 envious of the fact that I enjoy my job more than him and pretty much everything else in life. Also his tendency towards numb black existential angst made any sort of cheerful approach towards arousal difficult for him. He needed the straight-forward punch in the gut of porn as opposed to the boring sight of his perhaps too readily available wife's familiar breasts or other bits. Once he was aroused by porn it was obviously much more straightforward to simply MB rather than bring me into the picture. So, it's all worked out for the best because now he can have the sex life he wants in his bachelor apartment and I can have the sex life I want with the help of the 37-59 year old single male population of South-East Michigan as represented on Match.com. Like I said before, everybody has a sex life just not necessarily one in which you would want to participate.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
