I went back and read that post, Mrs.Nop. And here's where, as Nop would say, different relationships have to be handled differently. Your relationship is so different than mine, and MsHdog would never get to this point:
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Once we reached the point where sex became the forefront issue that we were going to work on,
. Here's where I think that a combination of Corri's (be disgusted with her email) and Cobra's (jump into the crucible a.k.a. Nop's step #6) is the way I need to go. It may not be the only way, but it feels right to me, at least in theory.
Last night, my W's filling-the-gap affection seemed to be toned down, and this morning it seemed to be dialed back to normal or even below normal levels.
