Hmmm....LD women are scared of ML; LD men are scared of ML. LD women suppress their sexuality so they appear to be LD, whether they truly are or not. It's socially acceptable for women to not be sexual and many are conditioned to be that way. For the LD men who prefer MB, that says that they aren't really LD. They just don't feel safe ML with their Ws. Neither gender feels SAFE ML/having sex with another person. The fear is just manifested differently. Interesting....