Mojo, Fearless,

Cobra, I hope you don't believe what you are implying in this statement.

Actually I do believe that statement. Maybe not for 100% of all men, but I’m willing to wager 95% or more. There are a few exceptions that have been discussed on this board, but I am not convinced they are truly exceptions. For them I believe sex is too scary so they prefer to MB. For instance, take Mr. GEL. Now that he is more comfortable with approaching GEL, it would be interesting to see if he would be willing to go back to his old ways of MB and not having sex. If not, that says to me that he prefers sex too.

My wife is the one who made the dumb blanket statement that sex is the same as MB for men. I believe that is more a projection of how she may feel as an LD, than what is true for men.


Cobra