Thanks Flyinghigh, Gina, and 25. I appreciate your thoughts and your support. I have decided that exposing the affair does not serve me in anyway. I will need strength to not let it out on one of those occasions when she is so cold towards me, but I'm pretty confident that I can do it.
On Sunday, we had a heart to heart and she said how happy that she is with how the separation is going and how unlikely it is that she would want to try to work on the marriage again. She then went into small talk about that boy scout that was lost in the woods. I interrupted her by saying that I still loved her and still have hope that our marriage can be saved, but given the current reality, I need some space to think things over and can not continue chatting about current events. I then got up and excused myself from the room. We haven’t talked since.
Was that a mistake?
Me-46;W-42 Together 23 yrs Married 16 S11 S8 S6 02/10/03 Her 1st affair 10/01/06 Sep Bomb 01/01/07 Sep Begins 03/09/07 Her 2nd affair
