Welcome back, SA4, and thank you for the post. For me, at least, it was timely.
I appreciate the constant reminder to GAL, to live fully and as happily as possible with S14, friends and family. H is on his own journey.
I also appreciate your comment that your H has regrets. Until very recently, I did not believe that about my H. But I am coming to see it in his eyes. He is still pushing hard for the D, and he is going to get the D very soon. But I am coming to believe that he has regrets nonetheless. He just doesn't seem to be able to move in any direction other than the D path he has chosen.
Enough about me. Thanks for the two important reminders. You sound very peaceful, and I'm glad of it.
