I Still Love Him You are so right about not listening to your friends, I swear I they look at me like I have two heads.
I have re-focused my attention to other things right now and I am not calling or texting her everyday. Don't want her to feel I up her butt. But then again she likes the attention so I will have to feel her out to make sure I don't put too much distance between us. She did call me yesterday and wanted to know if I wanted to come in Thursday to have my teeth cleaned (exW is a dental hygientist). I had mentioned I needed to get my teeth cleaned a couple of weeks ago, she hasn't done them in about 3 years (there was a time I didn't want her any where my mouth with a sharp object ) . She said I can get you in Thursday 11:45am and all it will cost you is lunch! I looked at that as a baby step she has never invited me to lunch before. I also reminded her that the C appt was for this Friday and we needed to make arrangements for our D10. She had forgotten and said no problem she will pick her up from school and drop her off at a friends house. I took that as another baby step, I was worried she would have second thoughts about that and back out.
I think at lunch tommorrow I will see if she wants to come over my house Sat nite, I'm thinking about cooking us some steaks on the grille and watching a movie. Hopefully my D10 can sleep over a friends house.
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