She has only recently really “gotten” it that for a man, having sex really is better than masturbating.
I noticed this same statement too. What caught my eye was the generalization of men's preferences. I think there are plenty of women who have Hs that seem to prefer masturbating to sex.
This reminded me of an argument I seem to see a lot of men here using. They explain to their wives not that THEY want a certain thing in their relationship. Instead they use the "logic" of the fact that MEN in general need it. That may or may not be true but I think it can be beside the point. Is a person's need or feeling not valid IF other men or women do not feel that way? I would say no. Your feeling is valid for you and should be respected as such. Once you start down that path of justifying why you need something by dragging in what men or women need now you opened the door for them to point to the men and women who don't need it. Or you open the door to arguments about the differences in men and women. But that isn't what you really want, is it? You really want YOUR needs and feelings acknowledged.
And I am not sure where you were going Mojo but for me I would certainly say that as a woman I prefer sex
But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads? ~Albert Camus
