Write H a short (no more than 10 sentences) letter and send it along with him to work in a card or something. Just tell him how much you love him and how lucky you feel to have married him. That you'll respect his space physically until he's ready to come to you. Then drop it! Otherwise you're not speaking his LLs.
This is how men operate. He's not ready to ML to you right now and he knows that that's upsetting you. So he's upset at himself for not being able to ML to you. Men think that it's their job to make you happy. That's what they think, seriously. If they feel like they're not doing a good job, their morale goes down. Think about it, if you worked in an office where your KNEW that you weren't doing a good job and then your boss came in said to you almost everyday, "You're not doing a good job!" How would that make you feel? It would crush you, right?
Well, that's where your hubby is right now.
love you darling....hang in there and just continue speaking his LLs and don't, I repeat bring up the ML. Reinforce every other area that is good right now. Just like if your boss would compliment you for all the other work you're doing, then you'd want to tackle the BIG task that you've been avoiding all along. Get it? Sorry to be blunt, but you like me need it sometimes.
How's the weather in England? Our snow here is melting...And today is the first day of spring! So put on a nice frock and some red lipstick and celebrate!
