Thanks for your advice, encouragement and tough love. We just got home late tonignt, and I am exhausted, so will fill you in more tomorrow on the details of our trip. As predicted, he did not stay home tonight - said he needed some think time and that he wouldn't be able to sleep until he checked on the job site... I asked if I could go with him to check on them, and he said he needs some alone time.... Whatever. I can't control what he does, so I'm just going to go get some rest now and see how tomorrow plays out.
Will fill you in more tomorrow but in the meantime just wanted to check in and say that as hard as it was sometimes to be there with him and his mom and dad, I'm glad that we went. My heart is torn in two still, but at the same time I feel like some progress was made....
Anyway, I'm exhausted - more later. Thanks you all for your concern and candor.
