Reading about your H burns me up! I felt all your pain with the lying and cheating. Then he tells you that he tried but has no feelings. Aaarrgh! Keep yourself up. It sounds like you were doing well GAL. I am impressed by your strength thru the Dbusting process. When I also found out about OW and lost my temper my H actually did file for D.
It is good to let go and detach. There are no guarantees with Dbusting but it gives you a chance to be happy with yourself and your choices.
Me: 36 WAH: 35 S1: 5, S2: 3, D: 2 Married 13 yrs Bomb dropped Nov. '06 H filed D papers Feb. 1, '07 H nows says OW is GF since April '07
I felt all your pain with the lying and cheating. Then he tells you that he tried but has no feelings. Aaarrgh! Keep yourself up. It sounds like you were doing well GAL. I am impressed by your strength thru the Dbusting process. When I also found out about OW and lost my temper my H actually did file for D. 
