Happiness, is it even possible.

[Lillieperl]

Mrs. cac, if anyone can get through to cemar, you can (and believe me, we've ALL tried over the years).

Cemar, if you want to know what is going on with your W, you can either ask her (which you appear not to want to do), or you can print out this post of Mrs. cac's and study it.

In fact, why not print it out and give it to your W and ask her, "Is this how you've been feeling?" (I don't know why I suggested that. I'm sure you won't do it.)