i am new to piecing, have been hanging out on the We're separated board... my H has finally agreed that he wants to work on our marriage. he has been seeing soemone else for a little over 3 months now and finally broke it off with her. he and I have been separated on and off again for over a year now, each taking turns at being the WAS.
H has been living in a town 3 hours away, and I am going over there thursday evening to talk about the logistics of S3 and I moving in with him.
i am trying to give him as much space as possible and to give him time to adjust to his decision. have tried the old ILY thing a couple of times now and not sure if that is a good idea yet or not. i can tell it makes him uncomfortable to hear it still.
he has a circle of friends that are all in common with OW, and one of H's best friends is dating OW's good friend. i can tell that he is really struggling with how to handle his social circle. i am kind of at a loss about re-establishing myself as his wife. i don't want to be pushy, but i also want to make my boundaries clear. he cannot keep in contact with OW any more. yes they have in common friends, and he may see her out socially, but it is not going to be acceptable for me for them to communicate in any way.
any advice you all might have to offer will be greatly appreciated.
