I agree with the detachment. I have made our family too accessible to him by inviting him over to dinner and such. Our daughters are really upset by his behavior because he keeps stringing me along. I'm hoping this will cause him to see what it is like without his family. I will continue to work on my apperance and attitude. Everyday I get a compliment on my weight loss and appearance. I even had one of my high school students tell me today how pretty I looked, wow!
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon