I tried to shine, but I was outdone by someone else! I still had a good time. My BIL started talking to me about how healthy that person is for H. He sure sees it differently than I do. BIL thinks she respects our marriage so there is nothing to worry about. I am trying hard to understand that. I thought it was interesting that he brought it up. BIL is a good guy and disliked H's xow. I really think he wants our marriage to work out. H keeps asking what BIL and I were talking about. He'll never know (at least from me and I think BIL will keep it confidential).

Meanwhile, I'm working hard on my exercise program. That makes me feel better about myself.
Matilda