Thanks OF and kiki. I've prepared a response but I need to know if I should send it at all and/or if it needs to be modified.

Fire at will...

I'm glad to hear that you've resolved a lot of the past issues and continue to work on the more recent ones. I didn't mean anything ill, I'm sorry if you felt that way.

If you say you're not running away from your issues then that's sufficient for me, I have no way of knowing but you do and I believe you. I'm no longer running from mine. I'm at a good place right now and making steady progress. I continue to work on myself and I feel I'm becoming the person I once was, the person I liked. I'm even doing OK in my professional life I was recently promoted and for the first time in my life I have a window office and many new responsibilities. In all this I've never forgotten you for even a moment. I think about you every waking moment. You're afterall the biggest reason that brought about this change. This whole thing hit me like a tonne of brick.

I'm sorry you feel that that I have negative feelings towards you. Just so you know it's quite the opposite in fact. I've been offering prayers as regularly as I possibly can and I pray for you and all of us, I send positive thoughts towards you everyday.

Thanks for taking the time to respond. I appreciate your willingness to share your thoughts with me.


Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again