its not even the venting but the actual way that they speak to one another . there is no love no respect nothing. it is like 2 kids fighting.
chicki, that was how I received it as well. Our concern is that you don't need to be the parent but it if you love H and respect yourself, you won't stoop to Hs level. It may feel good at the time that you "got back at him" and was able to "get in a few choice words" but what is it you really want? Do you want to get rid of him, do you want him to come back, what?
If you want your M, you need to do what is opposite of your immediate emotional reaction to any situation. Get past the things he is doing to hurt you or the kids. Always be the mature one. Be the "true" friend that does not have ulterior motives. That is the person he really needs.
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God
