why dont you read her last post and tell me how productive that was. this has nothing to do with her saying she is venting. Always, i understand you may be projecting your own hurt here and i totally understand that and no i know nothing about a PA but read the way they talk to each other and then tell me what is wrong with this picture.
HA is right. We can vent and it is important that we can vent but we have to be careful that it does not lead into justification to take it outside of this board. If we dwell on these feelings, it becomes ingrained. If we want to make the changes permanent in ourselves, we cannot use anger to do it. It has to be genuine and consistent. I think Happy means that sometimes venting is not productive; it can be destructive.
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God
