SAD WHEN OW COMES BEFORE HIS KIDS!!!

[missmyfriend]

I am almost 100% sure that the EA has turned into a PA. I do care but I am more concerned that my beautiful W is hurting herself more than me. The damage she is doing to herself emotionally and possibly physically is worse on her. I hate the thought of my girl being with someone else. Hate it. But I know that just like material possessions it doesn't mattter. Her heart will never belong to someone else. Even though she said the famous line we all of heard, the I love you but not in love with you crap, I know it isn't true; and that is not self-denial. It is fact.

That is why everyone's spouses are so messed up, depressed outwardly, acting as if everything is just peachy, sullen, whatever, is because they are confused. Either they love you or they never did. I would bet that it is the former.

So, chicki, I bet your H loves you but is doing the temper tantrum thing. Our spouses think, "I hate you not letting me have my way so I don't love you no more!!" B.S.!!!

I refuse to act like a child in this anymore (if I can help it). She thinks of me as the parent in this so instead I am going to confuse her and be the friend. When her world comes crumbling down, I will be there because I vowed that I would. I keep my promises to God. I will keep my promise to the woman I married.