Mrs. HD can't do it, because she isn't there yet. To her, ALL FORMS of sex and love making are just scratching an itch. That is the problem. She has no respect for it, no respect for HD, and therefore, sees it as completely a teeth gritting experience.
Technically, no, there is nothing wrong with fcking because you are horny. An LD woman does NOT respond to "I"m horny, wanna fck?" She doesn't respond, period.
She doesn't respond because she doesn't HAVE to. She doesn't respond because she thinks she doesn't WANT to, because she thinks she's tired, stressed, fat, whatever.
She doesn't respond because she does not feel attracted or attractive.
The NOPs may have initiated a schedule, and that may have fixed the initial problem with frequency... but NOP lost the anger, was kind, was consistent... and then he lost interest.
He removed every barrier Mrs. NOP had... she learned a new respect for him... in a slightly different way... and had to look to herself.
Now, I'm sure she will correct me if I'm wrong... but I'm going to go out on a limb and say it was the respect, in the end, that turned the ship.
