I had a talk with her today....she confirmed that she was seeing him
she re-iterated that she was confused
she reminded me that she is not sure if she can get the "in love" feeling back for me

we came to an understanding that I will stay there....she will let me know when it ends with him...I said if it ends and she said, no, "when" it ends

to be honest with you, I don't know if I can do this
I told her that I don't want to be lied to anymore....that it was out in the open and she had no reason to lie to me anymore....I told her that I will stay as long as I am in love with her.
I told her that we need to start over with respect for each other
which = no lies
and then friendship

I guess I will no when I can't take her having this affair any longer

any advice?

Last edited by tookher4granted; 03/20/07 08:44 PM.