I might be able to grit my teeth and force myself to do this if it's what you need to stay married. But it is not making love, just as cleaning the house is not making love, and it certainly won't make me feel very loved or loving toward you.
Hairdog, sounds like you need to buy MsHD one of those minty rubber mouth protector thingies they make high school football players wear . A cup might for yourself might not be a bad investment at the same time.
. A cup might for yourself might not be a bad investment at the same time. 
