HR, regarding nature, etc.... it might be interesting just to ask her the question, "Do you ever feel free anymore, or do you feel trapped most of the time?"
It's the Assumption of Good Will... if you really think she has no Good Will toward you left in her, then there's no point in hanging around.
What if we assume she is clearly and accurately representing her position-- even if she's doing it without a speck of diplomacy or caring. She doesn't want sex unless she feels loving. Her life is too crowded with responsibility for her to feel like ML. You have to give her credit for sticking to her guns (as only a Type 1 can do).
I saw something of you two in the Ryan and Cynthia story. Both feeling trapped.
Not much help, I know... just trying for a paradigm shift.
