She said, "that's why you were smirking right"? I said, yep. So then she was very grateful, and apologized, and it was a warm goodnight, two kisses and a cuddling. Also opened the door to some positive conversation.
Well that worked out.. I was a little nervous since she now thinks all you are doing is trying to get sex. It was a good change.
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My main point was that it's not OK with me that we just stay together for the kid's sake. I did'nt threaten leaving or D, but I reaffirmed how much I loved her, how I admire and support her, and how things are changing within me. But that also it was time for OUR R to change. I told her that she was made for me, and she agreed.
I was just thinking that NOW would be a good time to 'switch hit' and stop flirting and teasing and see if SHE starts to come to YOU.
