Cemar wrote: ---------------------------------------------------------- What is it that your husband could do that would actually help, or would actually cause you to desire? ----------------------------------------------------------
What would it take to cause you to answer questions?
Answer everyone's questions and I will tell you the secret to generate desire in your spouse.
-NOPkins-
Amen Nop's!! CeMar you STILL have not answered any of the very direct questions posed to you just in this thread alone. Do you avoid talking to your own wife and opening up to her as you do with us on this BB? If so, there's something right there that YOU need to work on.
Communication is something that is absolutely necessary to form intimacy, at least in this female's POV.
SEX alone does not create intimacy for a woman (it might for you, but I'm willing to put money on it that it doesn't for her)....it's the things that go on outside the bedroom that will help create that, that will lead to her desiring you and wanting to be intimate with you. I just don't see you doing those things that will foster that feeling in her though. You want this to be YOUR way, she must desire you without you doing the other stuff...you won't budge on that. So, you will stay in this place you are in now....you will remain in a stalemate.
