I DID NOT see ML as anything other than something that H needed. Don't get me wrong, I am usually orgasmic (as long as I'm not on SSRIs) and I always enjoyed ML while it was happening, but I just couldn't summon up enough energy or what-have-you to want to start ML in the first place.
My wife is ALWAYS in this place. Your husbands reactions are NORMAL under the circumstance. But the problem is that LD women, even when they start working the issue, they focus on SEX. This is NOT going to fix the problem. The problem that you face is how are you going to show your husband true desire. HD men often can not separate desire and love, which women easily do. Lack of desire means no love.
What is it that your husband could do that would actually help, or would actually cause you to desire?
