It is'nt comfortable yet, building passion, but like anything new it'll become second nature.
I think you are doing fantastic... it IS actually hard work and yes one day it will be second nature. I am so proud of you. Keep it up ( no pun intended..)I too have to keep working on me ... ignorance is bliss. But knowing all that we know~ Learning and growing as we do thru this~ I do believe~ makes the ML and the R that more passionate. Thanks for being there for me. And for all your Kindness and Wisdom. You and your Wife are still in my prayers~ Have a Fabulous Day~ God bless...
She said, "that's why you were smirking right"? I said, yep. So then she was very grateful, and apologized, and it was a warm goodnight, two kisses and a cuddling. Also opened the door to some positive conversation.
Well that worked out.. I was a little nervous since she now thinks all you are doing is trying to get sex. It was a good change.
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My main point was that it's not OK with me that we just stay together for the kid's sake. I did'nt threaten leaving or D, but I reaffirmed how much I loved her, how I admire and support her, and how things are changing within me. But that also it was time for OUR R to change. I told her that she was made for me, and she agreed.
I was just thinking that NOW would be a good time to 'switch hit' and stop flirting and teasing and see if SHE starts to come to YOU.
