I thought everyone here has already determined all of her work for her???

Interesting. It seems to me that everyone has determined all of Hairdog's work for him.

He's been at this for years, trying to figure her out, give her what she wants so that maybe she will start trying to figure out her sexuality. There seems to be a pervasive view that because it hasn't worked yet, Hairdog hasn't done what he's needed to. That if he'd just be more sensitive to her real issues, she'd come around. I understand that HD is here and MsHD isn't, but at what point do we decide the work to be done is MsHD's? When did you decide you'd done all the work you could in your M?

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